we haven’t left yet

we were supposed to pedal away this morning for the start of our cross-country journey.  however, we’ve encountered some obstacles. 

on tuesday, we moved out of our apartment in dc.  it was the worst of all worst moving days.  i know all moving days are horrible and i feel like i say that it’s the worst every time but this one was actually the worst.  we were physically moving for 16 hours.  throughout those 16 hours, we were appalled by the amount of stuff we had accumulated.  we were humbled by our greed and attachments to these material possessions — what IS all this stuff?! and why are we moving it to seattle if we never use it?! 

i know i get attached to things because of the memories that go along with the items — memories of sitting in certain chairs drinking coffee out of certain mugs with certain people.  i love those happy thoughts that i think of later when sitting in the same chair.  but does it mean that i need to hold onto the chair/coffee mug/table/coaster?  if i no longer have those things, will i lose the memory as well?  i don’t think that’s how our brains function….. 

but how can we make sure to hold onto the most important memories and lessons and let go of what doesn’t matter? how do we carry the good stuff with us?  where is the balance between purging and hoarding?! because david and i definitely haven’t found it. 

so anyway, we had to shed some belongings that wouldn’t fit in our moving pods.  there was no time to prioritize really so we just had to let go of stuff.  and thinking back on those moments, i feel refreshed.  and i’m also thankful that our stuff can sit for 2+ months while we live happily without it.  i’m really excited to live for a while without all of our things.  i’m hoping we’ll learn a little bit about what is really important which will make shedding some more things in seattle a bit easier.  

also from those 16 hours of physical movement on tuesday, our bodies are achy, injured, and exhausted.  we needed more time to recover before enjoying any sort of bike ride.  we hurt all over but david’s knee is a specific concern.  it hurts him quite a lot to pedal a bike at the moment so that’s a bit of a problem for our planned journey.  we are using some of our built-in buffer time to rest and hope the issues resolve themselves.  we’re trying to be patient and not let the calendar dictate our schedule.  we’re taking it a day at a time.  

a taste of vietnam

this is an exceptional video (sent to me from S -of alaska fame) showcasing a two weeks meant for “exploring the food of vietnam.”  it also hints at many other awesome things about vietnam and the vietnamese people that i experienced while i was there in november (don’t they all look so friendly!?).  so in addition for making me terribly hungry, i’m crazy-nostalgic right now.

enjoy! and plan your trip to vietnam. you won’t be sorry.

A Taste of Vietnam from Daniel Klein on Vimeo.

x! 

reentry.

i’m alive.  yes, i’ve been MIA from the blogosphere for quite some time now (i believe my last post was in october? oops), but i’m back now.  i’ve just settled into an apartment in the ballston area of arlington, va with a lovely view of interstate 66 and i start teaching 3rd grade full-time on monday.  yes, as my sister says, i’m becoming a grown-up lady (sort of).

i got back from italy in late july, 2011 and have been flitting about the globe (of course) since.  i visited some friends in new york, california and then i took a road trip through alaska and canada.  in early october, i embarked upon an epic southeast asia adventure with longtime friend, A.  i was gallivanting 12 time zones away for 6 weeks and returned just before thanksgiving.  

and i’ve been in the states ever since.  that means i’ve been in america for 62 whole days – the longest period of time without leaving the country in about a year and half.  and oh man, am i still adjusting.  here is a short list of some things i haven’t quite gotten used to again in the past 62 days.

my iPhone: in italy, i had a cell phone.  but only about 10 people had my number and i worked with all of them which meant there were very few reasons to actually call or message me.  that communication situation is drastically different than my current situation where my sister sends novels via text message (complete with pictures) and my mom likes to talk on the phone once a day.  apologies abound because i’m just not used to people calling me!  also, when i do use it, my usage skills are mediocre at best.  i’m almost certain that it doesn’t reach its full potential.  i did have an ipod touch in my travels last year that i used quite well but something about adding the telephone capabilities have blown my mind.  i DO, however, have a neon yellow case for my phone, which makes me love it.

grocery stores: now, i love the grocery store.  i usually take a list with me but don’t consult it very often because i love to go up and down every aisle and check out the selection.  when it comes to actually putting something in my basket, however, the anxiety sets in.  WHY ARE THERE SO MANY OPTIONS?! i’ve started reading the ingredients in everything for comparative purposes, thus, adding to the amount of time i need on each aisle.  and it doesn’t really help me choose what to buy because almost all the labels include some chemically-sounding something that i have never heard of and couldn’t try to pronounce if i wanted to.  do i really want to eat that?! so i usually end up choosing something that i’m less-than-thrilled about consuming and then i’m just unhappy.  now you’re probably wondering how i have time to go through this process every time i need to buy some food.  i don’t!! and i’m rarely completely satisfied with something i’ve bought, so it’s not like i have go-to items that i can run in and grab.  i just don’t know what to eat anymore.  for the record, comparable anxiety hits me in similar stores such as CVS, walmart, and target. it’s awful (anecdotal tangent: my first day back in america last july, i was in target trying to buy shampoo.  i left the store in tears – and without shampoo – because i got so stressed out.  very traumatic).   

driving: i’m not totally sure what the problem is here but i know that i didn’t used to dislike driving as much as i do now.  i’ve told you before that driving is not my preferred method of long-distance travel, but now i just don’t like it ever.  i’m annoyed by needing to drive my car anywhere.  if i’m going somewhere close-ish, i want to walk; but people don’t do that here – everyone drives everywhere.  it’s nonsense.  this is more a cause of annoyance than something i’m not good at (not to say i’m an excellent driver, let’s be serious).

in the coming weeks, as i’m continuing to adjust to life in america (and so close to the nation’s capital!) and settling into my pseudo-grown-up-lady life, i’m going to be updating this here blog with things i left out of my travels last fall and even last year while i was in europe.  it will be all kinds of nostalgic to reminisce about travels and life last year especially as the weather here is so, well, january.

so, get excited because it’s going to be fun!

x

thoughts from cambodia

we’ve been in phnom penh for a week already and I’m in no hurry to leave. the city is nice, not too big- we’ve been able to walk most places- and not too small that we’ve run out of areas to explore. it’s easy to navigate if you don’t factor in the extremely chaotic traffic situation. the people are friendly and my very basic attempts at speaking Khmer have made them even more welcoming; it’s inspiring to encounter such friendly people especially while knowing what a tumultuous past the country has had. learning about the Khmer rouge genocide while getting to know the country in it’s current state has been very interesting and humbling- and the khmer optimism for the future really shows.

our week here has been unlike any travel experience I’ve had before. we’ve only done a few things you would find in a guidebook and have been doing more wandering and discovering things on our own. also, because the country is developing, there are numerous NGOs in the area and through a friend of a friend I’ve been able to explore what people are doing to help and I got to spend a few days working with Khmer children, which I loved. getting to know a city and its people slowly has given me more time to absorb all the new things that I’m seeing and learning. I can tell that I’ll leave here with a higher appreciation for where I’ve been then I have had after previous trips.

on that note, I’m grateful to be traveling with A, who has really forced me out of my comfort zone. although I may not seem happy about it at the time, I know being uncomfortable and trying (really) new things has helped me to see and do things that I never would have otherwise [thanks!].

so, to sum up these very brief thoughts, even though each day is hotter than the hottest day of a Virginia summer, I’m having an amazing time.

what’s next, you ask? this weekend we go to kep, a beach on cambodia’s southern coast and next week we’ll get over to ho chi minh city at some point. after spending some time in vietnam, we’ll go to northern thailand to laze along the mekong with A’s cousin. then it’s back to the states just in time for turkey and stuffing.

x!